Understanding the Opposite Sex - Part 3

Men Form Relationships Through Shared Experiences. Women Form Relationships Through Shared Emotions.

Ive found this to be pretty consistent. Men get close by sharing experiences while women get close by sharing emotions.

Ever wonder why a woman often likes to talk on the phone? And why a man likes his guys night out?

One of the most common complaints that I hear from wives is that her husband wont sit down and talk with her. She feels that she cant get close to him unless there is a sharing of emotion. Men, on the other hand, want to go play tennis, or watch a movie, or build something.

Two men can get up at the crack of dawn, not say a word to each other, gather their gear and hunting rifles, and quietly slink into the forest to their deer stands. They wont say a word to each other the entire day, come home and feel that he and his buddy had a great time together--that they had this male bonding thing.

Women, however, will sit around and gossip. Why? This is the sharing of how they feel about so and so, or such and such situation. This sharing of emotion endears them to each other. Most wives crave this type of emotional sharing with their husbands.

I recall an instance when my wife brought to my attention a problem she was facing. I listened attentively, like a dutiful husband, and as soon as I clearly understood the problem, I outlined a course of action that I felt she needed to take. While I was telling her what to do about the problem, I noticed that she was looking at me funny.

I asked, Whats wrong?

I already knew what to do, she told me.

Then why are you telling me all this? I replied in confusion.

I just wanted to tell you how I feel about it.

Well, I learned a great lesson that day, and a great truth about my wife. There have been many times since then that Ive sat and listened as she either complained about something, explained a problem, cried about a situation, or laughed about something. I found that that was all she wanted from me anyway...to listen and talk about it.

In fact, Ive learned that, in many cases, if you want to figure out what a woman is going to do, you need to ask her how she feels about it. Finding out how she feels will clue you in to what she intends to do. For a man, ladies, if you want to know how he feels, ask him what he intends to do, and youll figure out how he feels. Otherwise you might run into this situation:

How do you feel about your meeting with the board tonight? the wife asks.

Its just another meeting, he responds absently with a shrug. Ill live through it.

If, however, you want more from him, maybe you ought to ask it this way:

So what is your plan for the board meeting tonight?

Well, Joe will be my biggest problem. If I can prove to him that my ideas are sound, Ill carry the entire committee. If I cant do that, Ill try to appeal to the director. I know for a fact that he has a weakness in this area

Some Good Advice:

1. Husband, set aside time just to talk with your wife. Shell feel close to you. In fact, allow her interrupt privileges. Give her the power to interrupt what you are doing to talk to you. Shell love that and feel that you do indeed love her.
2. Wife, involve yourself in your husbands activities. He is closest to those that he works with, and if you are involved, then hell feel close to you too. If you take an interest in his hobbies, job, and activities hell include you more often.

Men Are Turned On By Sight. And Women Are Turned On By Touch.

Im not going to delve too deeply in the differences between male and female sexuality. However, there are profound differences. I want to focus on one.

Men are turned on by sight, while women are aroused by sensual and gentle touch. Our society knows this. Men create womens clothing and look at the result. Most women clothing is tighter, more revealing, more sensual, and more immodest than mens clothing. Men like to look. Why do you suppose that the pornography industry targets men by and large?

However, a woman likes to be wined and dined. She likes the romantic settings, the gentle language and touch. Shes not overly excited by a man walking around without his shirt on, or a man strutting around in very short shorts.

If you dont believe me, the do this simple test. Set yourself in a store entrance of any kind. Mark down how the first ten men who walk in are dressed and the first ten women. Youll find that the women, by and large, have less clothing on, tighter clothing on, and more seductive clothing on. The reasons may be varied and complicated, but the fact of this is indisputable.

It's part of how we are different. Women want to feel pretty. So they dress to feel pretty. Men enjoy looking. looking can turn a man on.

Some Good Advice:

1. Husbands, take your time with your wife. Wine and dine her. Be romantic, do romantic things with her. And it doesnt have to lead to sex.
2. Wives, be modest in public and immodest in private with your husband. Im sure you can think of some ideas. But prove to your husband that your body is reserved for him, not for every man that has a pair of eyes. But when it comes to your husband...let him see!

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Why Haven't You Been Told About The AMAS Test?

With all the media talk about prostate surgery vs. taking drugs for prostate problems, you would think those are your only two options.

If information like this can save one more person from making a mistake with their prostate health, it will be worth taking the time to educate yourself on this important subject.

Are you aware that you can avoid surgery and drugs with proper testing in the first place?

Lets take a look at the facts when it comes to testing for prostate problems and look beyond the media headlines.

Better testing leads to more accurate information and a better diagnosis about the health of your prostate. And one of the keys is early detection with the RIGHT tests.

The most commonly MIS-used test is the PSA or Prostate Specific Antigen test.

Prostate-specific antigen - is a protein which is naturally produced by the prostate gland. Prostate tumors typically cause over-production of PSA, so when a blood test reveals an elevated level of the protein, it's a red flag that warns of possible problems.

Both cancer and benign prostatic hyperplasia or BPH which is a swelling of the prostate, can increase PSA levels.

What doctors usually do next is to recommend a biopsy. This is the next step toward trouble. Prostate biopsies are painful procedures that can result in bleeding and infection which only worsens your problem if you even have one.

And recent evidence shows that most of these biopsies are completely unnecessary.

In a 2003 study from the Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York City, researchers set out to determine if fluctuations in PSA levels would reveal a single PSA test result to be unreliable on its own.

The conclusions of this 4 year study revealed that an isolated PSA screening with an elevated level should be followed with an additional screening several weeks later before proceeding with further testing or a biopsy.

Because the problem with a single PSA test is that PSA levels normally fluctuate and having just one test leads to over diagnosis of prostate problems.

Here is where the AMAS test is significantly better.

A more sensible and dependable way to screen for prostate cancer is a blood test called the anti-malignin antibody screen (AMAS). Anti-malignan antibody levels become elevated when any cancer cells are present in the body.

Most importantly, these levels rise early in the development of cancer cells, which means that cancer can sometimes be detected several months before other clinical tests might find it.

With an accuracy rate of more than 95 percent, the AMAS test is much more reliable than the PSA test. And the best way to detect prostate problems is a SERIES of PSA tests (as the Sloan- Kettering Trial concluded), WITH the AMAS test.

This powerful combination of tests will allow you to avoid false alarms which lead to painful biopsies, drugs and unnecessary painful surgery.

The more you learn about these tests, the more you will feel compelled to implement them.

You can find out more about the AMAS test at http://www.amascancertest.com.

As you can see, these are important tests to take over a period of time which can save you from unnecessary surgery and drugs.

Take control of your own health by educating yourself about tests, treatments and nutrition so that you can become more healthy and stay healthier in the long run.

2004 by Lee Cummings Leeman@LC-Nutrition.com

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